If
I could, I would sue all those fairy tales, mills & boons, chick flicks and
love songs that damaged our heads and expose them for the lies they are! Honestly!
How many times have you met a knight in shining armour eager to help a damsel
(you) in distress? As for the mills & boon drop dead gorgeous arrogant
hunks who cannot live without you? I won’t even start! Chick flicks, love songs
– the whole lot, they should just get banned somehow!
Although,
when you think about it, that whole lot is probably a good escape from the
horrible reality. I laughed when a friend of mine furiously exclaimed how life
is so negative because of this whole love thing. And it’s true, life can be so
negative.
If
you aren’t seeing anyone, then that guy you have the hots for probably doesn’t
even know you exist, lol or if he does the feeling is not mutual. And then if
you are seeing someone, you have no way at all of knowing if he is as crazy
about you as you are about him!
I
figure it hurts the most when you are not the opening up kind. Because at first
putting up a wall helps yeah? You don’t have to let your guard down, you still
don’t trust him fully and since you expect him to screw up anytime soon you
really don’t care. When you start caring, that’s when you know your guard is
down, the wall has been broken, vulnerability doesn’t even begin to describe
you – when that happens, LOVE HURTS!
Why?
Because by this time, he is probably so comfortable with you he isn’t chasing
anymore. So all that attention, crazy lovey dovey is probably at a low and you
end up second guessing everything he does. And if he isn’t sensitive enough to
know that you need him to constantly remind you how much he loves you, lol,
then you are most definitely going to send yourself to an early grave.
What
to do? I have no solution my friends. Love is like a circle. At different parts
there are different feelings: happiness, pain, fun, worry, hurt... the list is
endless. So maybe if you feel hurt now, hopefully the next feeling won’t be so
negative:).
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