My mother always says
real life makes for great television. And she’s right, television doesn’t even
have the best of drama, comedy, horror or fiction kkk.
FRIENDZONE: UNCLEAR
RELATIONSHIPS
Personally,
I do not like to be in a situation where I do not know where I stand. If we are
friends let’s be that, do not be going all boyfriend-like on me and not
actually follow through on the asking me out part. IT’S FRUSTRATING!!! And the
nasty bit is when you cannot do anything about it. If you ask him out, he
probably wasn’t thinking about it, or he doesn’t like being asked out by a girl
and rejection of that sort is horrible! And you really do not want to push him
away because you like him too much. STRESSFUL!!!
BEING PLAYED: THE LOVE
TRIANGLE
Every
girl thinks her boyfriend is that one and only being dreamt of by every girl on
the planet. If you ask a girl if she thinks her boyfriend would ever cheat on
her, without thinking most times, her answer would be ‘not in this lifetime’.
So sad, because am sure it’s only a handful of guys who follow the
one-man-one-woman rule. It’s amazing how one can get away with it though. We
almost always see the tell-tale signs, but it’s so hard to face the truth and
only when you catch him red handed or if he “confesses” that you feel like
slapping yourself. Funny thing is, every girl thinks she can’t be played, but
almost all the time, she does get played.
THE
GUY YOU DUMPED HAVING MADE IT
Have
you ever met an ex you dumped and felt like being sick? Not because he is
disgusting or anything, but you are thinking argh!!! If only I hadn’t been too
materialistic! Let’s face it, dollars do matter (lol, sometimes). Now meeting
him alone might just be nasty but not nearly as, if you are still single and
he’s engaged. Mmm mmm mmm definite dagger through the heart!
MEETING THAT GIRL YOU
HATED IN SCHOOL
When
we were in school, there was always that girl you loathed. Maybe it was because
she was brighter, richer, hotter, or whatever. Girls like that you wish to
never meet again in life, lol. Well here’s the irony, imagine meeting her later
on, and she is way up there kkkk and you are way down there. Wouldn’t you just
want to kill yourself! The perfect scenario I guess would be for roles to be
reversed ey, she down there and you up there, lol, pity fate doesn’t usually
give you what you want.
BEING THE OTHER WOMAN
It’s
funny how you never think of karma when you are the other woman. Apparently,
what goes around comes around. So maybe you did not know you were being played,
but after he probably “confesses” and makes amends and swears to you that you
are his sun, moon and stars now, what makes you so sure that he will not cheat
on you like the way he cheated with you? Harsh, but true and super frustrating
if you ask me!
WHEN
CONVERSATION BECOMES STRAINED
There
is nothing as embarrassing as uncomfortable silence. It could be when you are
still a new couple and you do not know anything about each other, and both of
you are probably shy. I wonder which is worse though, that silence over the
phone or in person, lol. What of when you are at the brink of breaking up. At
that point you don’t even want to talk to him, whatever he says is irritating,
whatever he does is annoying and you are still not sure if you should stick
around and work at it or just leave him, lol, how in the world could you make
conversation in that scenario?
Eish! If all that had
to happen to you life wouldn’t be fun at all! But wait, it probably has
happened, is still happening and will still happen! What to do? I recommend
taking everything as it comes and laughing about it afterwards because if not,
you couldn’t stay sane. Life!
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